discoursecatharsis:

I actually haven’t watched Citrus! I remember some antis talking about it though, they didn’t really outright hate it, they seemed more disappointed that it went in the direction it did. Interesting that antis didn’t reach the hatred level towards Citrus fans like they do with other things

Citrus has actually problematic stuff though, not the fact that they’re stepsisters but the fact that one of the first “romantic” moments they have in the series is pretty rapey. And in story it was SUPPOSED to be rapey.

But most of the people I saw touting it as romantic were ALSO Klantis and “woke” people.

That is stone cold proof that Antis believe “it’s not rape/pedo/whatever if a woman does it!” And that shows just how toxic those people are.

discoursecatharsis:

thesleepingnotsobeauty:

cheshireinthemiddle:

echochamberambassador:

thatsyouthatshowdumbyousound:

bimbandboozled:

Fact: companies wouldn’t make women’s razors a different way if women didn’t buy enough of them to make the separate assembly line worth the cost. Companies are not going to throw profit down the toilet just to spite women. The only ones you can blame for this are the swaths of women who readily spend the money on them.

Something just struck me, how many women do you see with mustaches? Or any facial hair.

Women’s razors are typically for body hair while men’s razors are normally for facial hair. I never seen anyone talk about that though.

Men’s hair in general is thicker than women’s. That includes body hair.

Men and women also have skin with different textures and needs. Women’s razors exist for a reason. Women’s shampoo exists for a reason. Women’s vitamins exist for a reason.

This isnt like making pink or purple pens and saying they are for women. Youre complaining about something that caters to biological differences. Chances are that if they didnt cater to women’s biological differences, you would be calling it misogyny.

No one is forcing you to buy the pink razors. My boyfriemd uses the cheap-ass, 99cent 5-pack pink women’s disposable razors to shave his face. No one cares if you buy the women’s razor or men’s razors if you’re of the opposite gender. Also, since I was a stocker at my store the razor prices were the exact same for the “male” & “female” versions of the same blades, even if the women’s razors had aloe infused stuff on them.

autocorrect-inspired:

crylie:

gion-lady:

crylie:

autocorrect-inspired:

They are the equivalent to strippers here. They never engaged in sex acts but if you look throughout their history they were not treated well. Most being sold into that profession.

If by “here” you mean Japan, i’d just like to say that it is well known that not even the average Japanese citizen is aware of the true nature of the Geisha, Geiko and Maiko. they are not strippers and to say things like this is demeaning to the women who work hard and are trained in the arts (dance, music, tea ceremony, etc.). 

Geisha became what they are known as today in the mid-1700s. the first actual geisha were men and they entertained shogun and samurai (and other wealthy men) with dance, music and the art of tea ceremony and theater. when courtesans were losing money to these male geisha, a few of them broke away from being in the sex business and became female geisha. therefore, geisha as an occupation never was a thing of the sex trade/prostitution and absolutely NOT stripping. 

let me dispel some common misconceptions:

• so, geisha were never prostitutes, never perform sex acts or even accept relationships/marriage proposals until after they retire from being a geisha (usually in their 30s, tho some women stay geisha until death by choice).
• while geisha in the past (we are talking almost 100 years ago by now) have been given to Okiya (geisha houses) by their families, it was usually due to the families inability to afford their child and rather than let the child be homeless and starve, they gave them to an Okiya where they would live a much better life (Okiya housed other geisha within that Okiya’s special “familiy”; the Okasan–”Mother”–of the house protected them, gave them a comfortable living, fed them, sent them to all their classes, spent money on their personal kimono and make-up, and who arrange their finances and plan their parties and events). Nowadays, and pretty much since the 1940s, Geisha become Geisha by choice and enter into the profession after they graduate middle school (it is even required in most cases that they complete at least that level of schooling before becoming a Geisha) willingly.
• GEISHA wear their Obi belts tied tightly in the back to hold together their Kimono; these belts are so long and heavy that the Okiya hires a male dresser to assist in tying these Obi every night before a party or event. a geisha could not strip or easily take off her many layers of Kimono/undergarments and so the assumption that they are strippers just doesn’t make any sense. a traditional courtesan or TAYUU/OIRAN wore her Obi belt loosely tied in the front so that she could easily untie it for a customer.
• There is no empirical evidence of there being any such thing as “mizuage” (as referred to by Arthur Golden in ‘Memoirs of a Geisha’) in the geisha world. there is however evidence of the ritual of mizuage in the Tayuu (or Oiran depending on the region, i think) courtesan tradition. a courtesan who was being initiated would have a ceremony where wealthy men bid for her virginity, with the highest bid being the winner. These Tayuu (or Oiran) are absolutely NOT in any form in relation to a Geisha. i will also mention that prostitution in Japan has been illegal since 1959, officially.
• “Comfort Women” from the WWII era were prostitutes that told American GIs that they were “geisha” in order to make more money and to play on the exoticism that was so popular in the US at the time. this is where a big portion of the “Geisha are prostitutes” misconception came from. 
• “Hot Springs Geisha” and Bar Hostesses in Tokyo are trained in a similar way to traditional Geisha in that they have skills in the art of conversation and even some musical skill, however these women are NOT Geisha. “Hot Springs Geisha” are also known to engage in sex acts with hot springs patrons (though it is frowned upon) and so bring another incorrect image of sex-acts to the name of Geisha.
• While there have I’m sure been cases of abuse from an Okasan to her Geisha throughout the history of the profession, this is usually not the case, and to say that “many or all Okasan are abusive and manipulative to their Geisha” is ignorant and offensive.
• DO NOT READ “MEMOIRS OF A GEISHA”!! If you already have, I would strongly suggest you read other books on the subject of Geisha. Arthur Golden (a white man)  wrote this book to make money off of the many misconceptions about Geisha, Geiko and Maiko. Everything he says about the Geisha tradition is incorrect, from the part where he explains why “some Geisha” wear lipstick only on the bottom lip (this actually signifies that a Maiko has only been in training for under a year) to his horrible, offensive and incorrect description of a Geisha going through mizuage. He interviewed a very well-known geisha named Mineko Iwasaki for his book, which he then exploited and changed around for his benefit. She even tried to sue him for libel for taking stories from her personal life, twisting it and turning it into a book that lies about the fundamentals of being a Geisha. 
  I would recommend reading, “Geisha, A Life” by Mineko Iwasaki. she has written about what it really means to be a Geisha.

Here are is a picture of a Geiko (a fully-fledged Geisha who has completed most of her training and has become a professional):

Here is a picture of a Maiko (a Geisha-in-training who is still an apprentice and usually works alongside her “Older Sister” or her assigned Geiko partner; her Older Sister is in charge of most of a Maiko’s social training):

Here is the difference in dress between a Geiko and a Maiko:

Here is a Tayuu courtesan (high end prostitute); this profession no longer exists, any modern photographs of one is of an actress for historical theater purposes. Notice the Obi belt tied in front and the overall difference in dress. This was what courtesans looked like:

This is a photo of “Hot Springs Geisha” in the 60s. Notice the women serving drinks and entertaining men at the tables:

Here is a picture of an Ozashiki (party, event or gathering where Geisha are hired to entertain with music, dance, conversation and drink serving) today. It is much, much, much different (and more expensive) than an average hostess bar, and takes place within an Ochaya (traditional teahouse). As you can see, men are not the only ones who have booked an Ozashiki with Geisha:

Please do not spread misconceptions about these hard-working women artists. They deserve respect and have persevered for centuries with women at the forefront of these professions. Not only are these women trained to entertain party patrons, but they are also highly skilled in theater and the performing arts. Surrounding the Geisha are women wigmakers, female Shamisen, drum, flute ensembles, hairdressers, kimono artisans, well-respected dance/music/tea ceremony teachers, jewelry and hair accessory makers, Okobo and Zori footwear artisans, teahouse staff and Ozashiki planners, instrument craftsmen, and many, many more. If you would like to know more about Geisha, there are many books written by former Geisha out there.

Here is a short video of a Geisha performance, it is the annual Miyako Odori (”Cherry Blossom” Dance):

Thanks.

GEISHA FAQ

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^ I still want to thank this person for giving me a knowledge blast so I can correct other people for having my original opinion.

I read MOG when I was 14 and the mizuage part traumatised me and bothered the shit out of me at that age, especially WHY it was called that when there is no water involved (maybe it was referring to the hymen bleeding? And humans are mostly water…)

Well now I know why it bothered me so much, because it was a complete lie.

tilthat:

TIL that 47% of male victims of domestic abuse are threatened with arrest. 21% are arrested.

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