adult man to woman: “you should leave your boyfriend for me 🙂 I could treat you better. Please date me.”
14-year-old lesbian to straight girl peer: “omg honey you should date girls, boys are gross”
Lesbophobes: “Yes, This The Same Thing Actually. These Scenarios Are The Exact Same. Predatory Lesbos Will Get Me. Lesbians Are Like Straight Men.”
Yeah both of those sound fucking nasty to me. It’s gross and predatory to tell anyone they should be dating you/ANYONE when you know full damn well they are not attracted/interested
But also, funny how characterizing all straight men as the absolute devil just for being straight men makes people also jump to say lesbians are just as bad bc they have the same attraction…almost like it’s nonsensical and harmful to demonize people that way lmao
As a lesbian, both of those scenarios are digusting. Telling a straight girl that she should like girls because “it’s so disgusting to like boys” is not okay. Have you forgotten of the fact that people’s sexual orientations can’t be changed?
Also, to me, saying “you should like girls, liking boys is so disgusting” to a straight girl is not that far from saying “you should like boys, liking girls is so disgusting” to a lesbian
The only reason why the second one is slightly less disgusting is because it’s a kid doing it. Kids who behave like that are usually that way because of a lack of parenting or someone badly influencing them. But of course that doesn’t excuse their actions and adults have to immediately intervene.
The 14 year old who behaves like a nice guy/nice girl can be pulled aside and TAUGHT how to act like a decent human being. They can grow up and realise how cruel they were as kids.
The grown ass adult nice guy/nice girl however cannot.
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