The problem isn’t marriage – the problem is people. Since most people don’t know how to be married, they end up creating a prison for themselves with their unrealistic expectations and selfishness.
I take public transportation to work every day and I notice people from every gender do this bag on the seat thing. That’s why I think made up words like “manspreading” & “womansplaining” are kind of dumb.
why are there 5,000 people on this site holding back from doing something with literally zero repercussions for anyone in a world that will never remember the chances you didn’t take? don’t waste your time on this earth live your life slap some rice
Hi my job is literally to reset the shelves and honestly??
Slap that rice. Slap it good. patting down the bags makes it easier to stack more, which means when I have to do it it’ll be flatter and more settled and more likely that I can just slide it along without it slidin’ around.
fatphobia is: laughing and making fun of a fat person who’s trying to lose weight
fatphobia isn’t: suggesting a fat person should eat healthier
fatphobia is: discriminating against a fat person because they are fat (i.e. gatekeeping)
fatphobia isn’t: not allowing a fat person on a ride because it would be dangerous for everyone
fatphobia is: dehumanizing fat people
fatphobia isn’t: not dating a fat person because of a preference (there’s plenty of people that enable fat people into killing themselves with food more)
the anti fatphobia movement is just as fatphobic as actual fatphobes. it’s enabling people to kill themselves.
being healthy is not fatphobia. advising a fat person on what food to eat best to loose weight is not fatphobia. a fat person hating themselves is not “internalised fatphobia” (it’s someone realizing what they’re seeing is bad for them and should change)
stop using slow metabolism as an excuse. i have very slow metabolism. am i fat? no I’m not. there’s very few people that actually cannot help being overweight/fat. there’s a lot of people that can (and should) help it.
thicc DOES NOT equal fat
plus size DOES NOT equal fat
overweight DOES NOT equal fat
obese DOES equal fat
most of you are lazy fucks that never learned to cope properly. get a therapist and a dietitian, nutritionist etc. and get healthy. for half of you it is not too late and can still save themselves.
this is not hate, this is the truth. tumblr has a habit of being anti recovery. anti healthy. anti stable mental health. you’ll be doing your body and mind a huge favor by losing weight.
there’s a lot of resources that can and will help you. diets are not bullshit if they are properly constructed. eating healthy is literally as expensive as mcdonalds (if you buy in season).
stop making excuses.
I apologize for posting this, it is not something I normally do, but it hits home for me and needed to be addressed…
This is not the way to inspire change. It is understandable to get worked up over something that upsets us. We are human, and we have emotions. I have written and re-written this several times before posting. That is the important part; self control, regulation, and foresight.
Claiming something is not hate does not make it not hate. If you don’t wish to sound hateful, wait until the emotions have stopped welling through you before saying anything at all. Avoid stereotypes, generalizations, and insults. “MOST of YOU are lazy fucks” is a very hurtful, hateful generalization and accusation. Instead, post with concern and kindness to motivate positive change, offer up a solution to the problem, and don’t attack the people who are most effected by it.
If you see someone struggling, lend them a helping hand. If you were in their position once, show them your empathy and offer to guide them through. Always be kind to one another, especially when you see something that upsets you, because you never know how far a little kindness can reach.
On the subject of obesity, I can guarantee that many of us who are obese are well aware of our mortality and increased risks. Some of us have struggled all of our lives. Some of us don’t have health care. Some of us are bulimic or anorexic. Many of us have co-morbid disorders that create a vicious circle. Some of us who are obese have even attempted our own lives out of sheer desperation. I urge everyone to think of their words carefully around sensitive issues such as this, as those words will mark and follow you.
As for helpful tips, I know many of you have terrible health insurance that will not cover a dietitian (I know mine didn’t). What has been helping me is NOT counting calories. I have a set of measuring cups that stack neatly in my kitchen drawer. When I am hungry, I measure out a serving and eat it. At this point it really doesn’t matter what it is. If you are used to eating three chocolate bars a day, getting rid of chocolate all together is setting you up to fail. I am also making little changes with substitution, such as dark chocolate for milk chocolate. It’s stupid to think a salad is an ample replacement for a burger, but remove the bun on the burger and you remove 150 calories. “Eat this Not that” is a great series of books, but I am sure there are online alternatives. A timer also helps, as I have hypoglycemia. It reminds me to keep my blood sugar up, but still keeps me from snacking. There are also some great in-bed and in-chair exercises online for those with mobility issues. You may also be able to get food stamps, which double at some grocery stores when buying produce (ask management). Finally, measure in inches, not pounds. You will gain muscle and retain water as your body adjusts; The key is to take it slow. Just like above, making rash decisions will get you nowhere.
(Looking at it objectively I guess the OP did their job, if not at the expense of their own reputation.)
i don’t care about my reputation.
I’m fucking done with tumblr especially glorifying fat people. it’s disgusting and needs to change. “health at every size” is fucking bullshit. “fat is beautiful” is bullshit.
once again, fat does not equal thicc
fat does not equal overweight
fat does not equal plus size
fat DOES equal obese.
there’s so many idiots on here that say “food doesn’t correlate with health” and bullshit like that.
stop killing yourself.
as a former fat person, i have every right to say whatever the fuck to other fat people because guess what
i have a lower risk for dying at 30
there’s very few people in this world right now, that cannot help being fat. and there’s enough that can (AND SHOULD) help it.
Also worth noting is this fat acceptance is only there in America and the UK, no other countries glorify obesity like those places do.
In India average weight for a woman is 110 lbs. Chubby is 160 and over. Obese is over 200.
INDIA’S OBESE IS AMERICA’S AVERAGE.
THIS IS A SERIOUS PROBLEM.
NO OTHER COUNTRIES HAVE ISSUES LIKE THIS.
If America and The UK are the only places with obesity problems then they need to fix it.
It’s actually already becoming a problem in other EU countries, especially the more PC ones like Norway, which have fertile ground for fat acceptance to take root.
Third-would countries also have growing obesity rates, due to the introduction of cheap highly-palatable junk food.
Yes but those countries don’t GLORIFY obesity like America and the UK do.
India also has a growing obesity issue but everyone knows obesity is a problem. We are also the Type 1 Diabetes capital of the world, but there are no “Sugar acceptance” movements or “health at every pancreas” campaigns in India.
America and the UK aren’t the only places with obesity problems but they are the only ones to glorify them.
when you’re a boob guy thru and thru but the jedi council only wants to talk about some dumb war
isnt this the one jedi legally allowed to fuck?
Why is Ki-Adi-Mundi the only Jedi allowed to fuck, George?
“Due to the Cerean’s social customs and low birth rate for males, Mundi was granted an extremely rare exception to be allowed to marry and have children, which was usually strictly forbidden by the Jedi Order as Jedi were not allowed personal attachments. Although Mundi cared for his family, he was required by the Jedi Order not to view them as attachments, a balance that Mundi found extremely difficult. Like all Cereans, Mundi practiced polygamy due to the 1-to-20 male-to-female ratio among his species“
The fact that the Jedi Order will let this one dude have sex in the name of reproducing a rare species but won’t break the code to “interfere” with he existence of slavery in the outer rim makes you understand why Anakin feels the way he does about them.