There is nothing wrong with gender roles. Men were made stronger and to be protectors and providers. Dont even pretend you think men should not be protectors at the least. That is their DNA.

There is nothing necessarily WRONG with gender roles, but we shouldn’t be forced to follow them if we don’t want to, and women and men who don’t act like typical men and women exist. 

And sometimes we need to break gender roles if the situation calls for it. If your car breaks down you can’t scream “I’m a girl I can’t fix this” and run for a guy to help you. If you’re short on food you can’t say “I’m a guy, I can’t cook” and think you can just run to a girl for that. 

The problem doesn’t come from gender roles in themselves, it’s forcing men and women to follow them even at the detriment of themselves and thus making them rely on others to do things they could otherwise do on their own.