How some of you fuckers sound
Woman: how was your day?
Man She’s Dating: well. it was kinda bad today-
Woman: I am NOT your therapist, shut up. *goes online and posts about “toxic masculinity” “male entitlement” and “emotional labor*
Man: *dumps her for being emotionally unsupportive*
Woman: ….why can’t I find dates? Do I have a repellent, unpleasant and abusive personality? do I drive people away because of my obsession with hot button issues to the detriment of my social life? No. It must be The Patriarchy ™
Have any of you ever met a woman
yeah, including more than a few women like this that i’ve dated and several very awful and abusive women
As much as I feel you’ve been mistreated by the more toxic side of tumblr, that last comment seriously sounds like bullshit to me.
If you’ve honestly dated women like this, I think it was probably your own fault for not seeing signs early.
You literally sound like someone who would blame a woman for being raped… What the fuck is wrong with you??
How dare you use the plight of abuse victims as a straw man. I wasn’t implying abuse is the victim’s fault at all. Being told you are an emotional burden is not abuse you fucking madman.
You… Literally did that yourself. It wasn’t a strawman. It was a fact. You seriously just told the guy that his abuse was his own fault. That is what we call VICTIM BLAMING. It’s literally on par with saying “she asked for it”.
No, ma’am. How dare YOU?
“Being told you’re an emotional burden isn’t abuse”
Mental abuse exists. And one of the aspects of mental abuse is making your victim feel like they owe you for every small thing possible.