Look, as someone who semi-regularly browses r/IncelTears, there is nothing that Snape says that comes even close to the vile, putrid slime that flies out of incels’ mouths, and unironically comparing him to them really does a disservice to the women and other minorities who have suffered from their actions
Not to Snape on main but
Is Snape a pure uwu good boi? NO.
Is he an incel? Also no.
Is he a complex character with good and evil inside him? YES.