raeucherweibchen:

6i:

you only feel lonely because you want something.

stop wanting. you are whole. detach yourself from the feeling of need. you are enough.

you only feel lonely bc humans evolved as a social species and were never meant to live in social isolation, slaving away day in day out with minimal contact to other people, that is very superficial at best not a single hint of intimacy, like it is the norm now lmfao no one can overwrite that by “detaching”, quite the contrary, detachment is a sign of depression CAUSED by severe social deprivation

I hate tumblr hot takes like that. our society is broken and anti-social and it’s making us SICK. normalizing this and pretending like it’s your personal failure that you can’t deal with something you were never meant to able to deal with bc we didn’t evolve to be alone is absolutely counter productive

Okay but this post doesn’t necessarily mean “avoid all human contact” it means “You shouldn’t base your happiness on other people because that’s emotionally unhealthy and it can cause you to either get hurt or hurt others”

People who constantly seek others to validate them and who hanker for interaction and/or intimacy aren’t the most emotionally well developed people.

Just look at Tumblr as proof. Almost EVERYONE on this site has some form of abandonment issues and it shows in the way they deal with and treat people. It explains why this site is full of emotionally codependent people at best and straight up abusers at worst.

If you don’t have emotional intimacy then see a therapist, get help, work on yourself before you seek out others. If you become desperate for it then SOMEONE is going to pay, either you or the person you’re so desperate for.