juxtapoesition:

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If you don’t want to date black women because you think they’re loud, ugly, ghetto, etc? Ur racist.

If you dont want to date them just because you dont feel attracted to them when you look at them? Not racism.

Turning someone you dont like down politely cuz you’re not attracted to them? Not bigotry.

Doing the opposite? Bad

And even when the answer is racism or transphobia or bigotry, all you can do is educate and encourage change.

Trying to force change will NOT work. Harassing, yelling, namecalling, etc will not make a racist not racist. It will make them more set in their ways if anything.