realtransadvice:

there is this idea that stealth is only an option for people if you are not in a safe environment but can we acknowledge that some people are stealth simply because they want to be?

we want to live our lives quietly as the sex we should have been born as and not have this trans label pinned to our back 24/7. we don’t want people to know we are trans.

we don’t have to be visibly trans. we come out to whoever we want and if we decide to never come out, that is our personal choice.

some of us don’t want to educate people or be your local political activist, we just want to live our lives stress free.