Unpopular opinion but;
The transmed community has become so toxic and shitty. I wish I saw it sooner. The beliefs, and ideology are correct, but the people in this community have become so bad.
Its sexist in a way too, you see a transman do something bad and people don’t seem to care. You see a woman, more specifically an mtf do something “bad” and people shit on you. Hard.
At this point the only good transmed blogs are normally the ones that aren’t exclusively transmed blogs. They aren’t so one sided.
Trust me i’m still a transmed at heart, but the community. God its awful.
Blame this on recent events all you want, and yea you would be right. Because this opened my eyes more than it had before. Plus talking with some other transmeds. I’m passionate about these views, but I can’t like the community for the way it is right now.
A lot of transmeds call tucutes a echo chamber community but then turn on another transmed the second they say one thing the other doesn’t agree with. It’s sort of a double standard if you ask me.
Right? Like take my situation for example.
I discourse a lot with radfems yes? I made one post during a mental breakdown saying I didn’t want to do anything with them anymore, THE NEXT MORNING I MADE A POST NEGATING THAT. But no one cared, instead now i’m seen as an attention seeking manipulative cunt.
Also apparently a troll for “fitting terf stereotypes of trans women” like its convenient. The community is so shitty towards women, trans women specifically, but then act like they care, when I unintentionally fit the stereotypes TERFs place onto transwomen. Like yes obviously I chose hypersexuality uwu. Like no what? I hate this with a passion??
Its so awful.
Yeah. I personally believe that it’s because so many transmeds are so eager to attack terfs and radfems that they begin to lose track of the line between radical feminism and other feminism. I’m not a feminist but other transmeds attacking you, a literal trans woman, for being one is absolute trash and you don’t deserve it. Also, especially fuck the transmeds who are spreading lies about you.
YES!!! LIKE SERIOUSLY. Radfem doesn’t inherently mean fucking transphobia. Theres a reason why TERFs and TIRFs are a different thing??? Trans exclusionary radical feminist, and Trans inclusive radical feminist. But everyone seems to fucking ignore that, and only focus on the bad parts??
I’ve always been one of those people that participates in the communities, but I’m not really IN the community. Like, I hold transmed beleifs, but I’m not going to suck your dick because you’re a transmed. I gots my own opinions. I personally don’t trust radfems (hell, because of past experiences, I barely trust normal feminists) but I know that TIRFs and TERFs are VERY different
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