goodthingsarewaiting:

Yeah they’re cute, but do they:

• Respect you?
• Do they value you?
• Are they capable of deep empathy and communication?
• Do they seek to understand?
• Do they love themselves?
• Are they a positive influence on your life?
• Do they support you and your decisions?
• Do they take actions to show they care?
• Would they stick by your side during a crisis?