I’m not trying to come off as rude or anything but why do you think it is that some lgbt people think it’s okay to abuse their partners? Is it because they’re the same sex?

They don’t even know they’re being abusive most of the time. Especially women. There’s a picture in society that only men, especially straight men can be abusers and that if anyone else does it it “doesn’t count.”

That’s why a lot of abusive LGBT people can understand if a husband is abusing his wife but don’t understand that when they do the same behaviour it’s abuse too.

We need to teach people that abusers can be anybody.