Few things are more annoying when women do that thing where they pretend they know more about or pull off some sort of faux sympathy towards another woman because of a decision she doesn’t approve of.
Shit like
“Wow, I feel so sorry for women dating ugly dudes like girl you can do so much better.”
Have you ever considered that she likes her dude’s appearance? That even though he may not be an 8 – 10 on the hotness scale she values him for more than just his looks and he makes her feel loved and cherished? That they have a loving relationship??? That appearance and how hot or ugly someone is isn’t a measurement of how healthy and loving a relationship is???
“I feel so sorry for girls who spend hours doing their makeup and they can’t catch a break from the patriarchy.”
Have you ever considered she just enjoys doing her makeup??? That her enjoyment for makeup comes from within and she spends hours doing it because she just enjoys doing it??
“I feel sorry for women who enjoy [insert thing] because they’ve been socialized to enjoy it.”
Bitch ??? Can you just??? Shut the fuck up??? People are allowed to enjoy things???
Like the faux sympathy, bullshit comes off as just another brand of I’m Not Like Other Girls ™ and you just come off as a conceited know-it-all who talks down on people who have interests, relationships, etc. that you think they “deserve better” than based off of petty and shallow reasonings.
That shit is basically the conceited “Im an empowered woman” talk for I feel sorry for women who I don’t deem as equal to me.
^That. And all that “if you disagree with me you’re just a whore doing it to get a cock” shit too. I’ve never had men, not even the nastiest men, giving me such a talk. But other women? Especially women calling themselves feminists and drooling all over themselves about “female solidarity”? A THOUSAND TIMES. The last one, two days ago. Being told “you must be a man, real women don’t talk/think like you”? A daily classic. Guess “female solidarity” comes with terms and conditions and can be easily taken away, after all. Behave or you get punished. Women are other women’s biggest enemy, sometimes.
Don’t forget when they ASSUME you’re being oppressed even when you follow their definition of empowered.
“OMG, how does it feel to be a *gasp* WOMAN in STEM?!? You must be so oppressed and struggle always????”
“You’re a gamer???? Do you want to be one of the boys??? Those men will never love you why do you play games???”
“You’re bisexual??? Oh no. Bihet. Dick worshiper. Women will treat you better uwu uwu uwu”