Hot take: letting your 10 yr old son be a “drag queen” is incredibly detrimental to their life.
Its one thing to let your kid dress up like Elsa. Its another to let your child get thrust into the limelight and allow them to act like a drag queen. That child is being put under an unhealthy amount of scrutiny at a young age.
But most importantly, that is going to be held over the childs head for the rest of their life. They wont be able to go anywhere, do anything, without being known as that kid who was a 10yr old drag queen. Thats going to affect their job prospects, love life, education, and most interactions in that childs life for the rest of their life. When that kid decides he no longer wants to dress in drag, and odds are he will because children change their mind like the weather, that will always follow him and odds are he will resent that.
Just saying
Also, not a good idea to get them to do erotic photos for adult websites. Why do the people who (justly) get angry about child beauty pageants not care if it is done with a boy, and done for a fetish clothing audience?
Your child can be gay, lesbian or bi. Because those things aren’t inherently sexual.
Your child can socially transition into the opposite gender without going on hormones until they’re older, because being trans isn’t inherently sexual.
Your child however CANNOT be a drag queen because that IS inherently sexual.